When the Mirror Lies: The Types of Body Dysmorphic Disorder

Body dysmorphic disorder (BDD) can take many forms — each deeply distressing. No matter the type, BDD can quietly erode confidence, health, and overall well-being.
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Body dysmorphic disorder is more than just wanting to “look good.” It’s an intense, often invisible battle with your own reflection, where what you see in the mirror can feel like an enemy rather than a facet of who you are.

BDD, like eating disorders such as atypical anorexia, is frequently misunderstood and stigmatized. It can rob individuals of far more than confidence in their looks. It can steal their time, opportunities, and quality of life while slowly eroding their relationships. 

Let’s draw back the curtain on the different types of body dysmorphic disorder and the ways they can impact a person’s physical and emotional health.

1. Classic BDD

Classic body dysmorphic disorder (BDD) is a mental health condition where an individual becomes intensely preoccupied with one or more perceived flaws in their appearance — flaws that are either minor or not observable to others. It’s not about vanity; it’s about a persistent belief that one looks flawed, even if others don’t perceive it that way.

In classic BDD:

  • The focus is often on the face, skin, hair, or body shape.

  • These concerns cause significant distress and can take up hours each day.

  • The person may engage in repetitive behaviors such as mirror checking, excessive grooming, skin picking, or constantly seeking reassurance.

  • The beliefs about the “flaw” can range from mildly exaggerated to completely delusional.

BDD affects around 2% of people in the general population, based on structured clinical interviews (Veale & Bewley, 2015). That may sound small, but 2% equates to millions globally, all quietly battling relentless, intrusive thoughts about the way they look — day in and day out.

And it’s not just mental exhaustion — BDD can lead to profound emotional pain. Individuals fall into loops of mirror checking, covering up perceived flaws, or chasing cosmetic fixes. Without relief, the distress can spiral into anxiety, social isolation, and in extreme cases, suicidal thoughts.

2. Muscle Dysmorphia or "Bigorexia"

Muscle dysmorphia is a subtype of body dysmorphic disorder where a person becomes excessively concerned that their body is too small, insufficiently muscular, or not lean enough — despite often having a muscular build that others see as “fit” or even above average.

The DSM-5 classifies muscle dysmorphia under body dysmorphic disorder in the obsessive–compulsive and related disorders category (American Psychiatric Association, 2013).

Research sheds light on how common this disorder is. A recent study found that 2.8% of boys and men in Canada and the US met criteria for probable muscle dysmorphia (Ganson et al., 2025). That means nearly 3 out of every 100 boys and men is likely silently struggling with potentially dangerous body image concerns.

What’s dangerous is how muscle dysmorphia so easily leads to overtraining, rigid dieting, or even steroid use. When your day — or your worth — revolves around your gym routine, the protein content of your meals, and how “ripped” you look in the mirror, it’s easy to lose touch with the rest of your world. Friends, hobbies, mental health, career goals, and even family relationships can often take a backseat to an obsession with the size and muscularity of one’s physique.

3. Body Dysmorphic Disorder by Proxy

Body dysmorphic disorder by proxy (BDDBP) is a form of body dysmorphic disorder in which an individual becomes preoccupied with perceived defects in someone else’s appearance — rather than their own.

In BDD by proxy:

  • The “flaw” is usually minor or nonexistent to outside observers.

  • The focus person is often a close partner, family member, or friend.

  • The preoccupation can consume hours each day and cause significant emotional distress.

  • Individuals with BDDBP may repeatedly check, criticize, or try to “fix” the other person’s appearance through grooming, suggesting medical or cosmetic treatments, or controlling their behavior.

While BDDBP is not yet a separate diagnosis in the DSM-5, it’s clinically recognized as a variant of BDD and follows the same underlying pattern — intrusive thoughts about appearance, compulsive behaviors to manage anxiety, and impairment in daily life (Wilhelm et al., 2011).

This subtype can cause serious relationship strain, interpersonal conflict, and in severe cases, lead to emotional or psychological harm for both the person with BDDBP and the individual they’re focused on.

4. A Growing Concern: Snapchat Dysmorphia

A newer, culturally-driven phenomenon, Snapchat dysmorphia is a term used by clinicians to describe the trend of people seeking cosmetic procedures to look more like their filtered or digitally altered images — often those created with social media apps like Snapchat, Instagram, or TikTok.

Unlike traditional body dysmorphic disorder (BDD), where concerns are based on one’s unedited appearance, Snapchat dysmorphia is fueled by exposure to idealized, digitally perfected versions of oneself. These filters can smooth skin, change facial proportions, whiten teeth, enlarge eyes, and make other changes that are unattainable in real life.

Key points:

  • The phenomenon is linked to increased body dissatisfaction and BDD-like symptoms (Ramphul & Mejias, 2018).

  • It can drive individuals to request cosmetic surgery that mirrors their filtered appearance.

  • The “ideal” created by filters is not biologically achievable, which can intensify distress and reinforce unrealistic beauty standards.

While Snapchat dysmorphia is not an official diagnosis in the DSM-5, experts warn it can worsen or trigger BDD, particularly among adolescents and young adults heavily engaged with social media.

Why Understanding These Types Matters

Body dysmorphic disorder doesn’t look the same for everyone. For some, it’s a constant battle with a small feature they believe is “wrong.” For others, it’s a relentless drive to be more muscular, or an anxious focus on someone else’s appearance. In a world where social media is almost inescapable, it can manifest in chasing the flawless, filtered look of a digital image.

Recognizing these different types of BDD matters because the disorder can spiral into serious health risks if left untreated. Research shows that up to 12% of individuals with BDD also meet criteria for an eating disorder (Mangweth-Matzek et al., 2016). That means the obsessive mental focus on a perceived flaw can shift over time — from wanting to look thinner, to more muscular, or vice versa — into behaviors that can cause serious, lasting damage to a person’s health and well-being.

Intervention Saves Lives

The good news is that BDD is treatable. The most effective approach usually combines psychotherapies like cognitive behavioral therapy (to address the thoughts and behaviors that drive distress) with medications such as selective serotonin reuptake inhibitors (SSRIs) to help reduce obsessive thinking and anxiety (Phillips et al., 2016).

At Aster Springs, we offer specialized treatment for eating disorders and co-occurring conditions, including body dysmorphic disorder. With personalized therapy, clinical support, and a compassionate team by your side, healing is not only possible — it’s within your reach.

Contact us today to learn more about our treatment programs and take the first step toward a life free from the chains body image distortion.

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Let’s be honest about denial.

Denial keeps eating disorders alive. Eating disorders thrive in secrecy and denial. If you don’t believe you’re sick, why would you seek help? That’s precisely how eating disorders stay in control.

Let’s be honest about denial in parents.

Denial is a natural response — but delaying the proper care can prolong suffering. For many parents, accepting that their child needs eating disorder treatment is an overwhelming and emotional experience. But early, appropriate intervention is key to lasting recovery.

Let’s be honest about isolation.

Eating disorders thrive in isolation, convincing you that you’re better off alone. But the truth is, isolation only makes things worse. It shrinks your world and traps you in a cycle of self-doubt and despair.

Let’s be honest about change.

Change is hard, but so is staying stuck. Living with an eating disorder can feel like the only way to survive. Even when it causes chaos, it becomes familiar — making change feel overwhelming.

Let’s be honest about guilt + shame in parents.

As a parent, it’s heart-wrenching to make the decision to send your child to treatment, especially when that child doesn’t want to go.

Let’s be honest about guilt + shame.

Guilt and shame can trap you in the cycle of an eating disorder, making it challenging to seek the treatment you need.

Let’s be honest about fear in parents.

Deciding to seek treatment for your child is scary — but doing nothing is scarier.

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You are stronger than your fears. Treatment is hard, but so is staying stuck in the cycle of an eating disorder. You can do hard things. And on the other side of fear? A life worth living.

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Olivia has a Master’s Degree in Social Work from the University of Michigan and received her Bachelor’s in Social Work from Michigan State University. Olivia comes to us with almost 7 years experience in the field and previously worked in addiction treatment and was the regional clinical director over 6 inpatient and outpatient facilities. Olivia’s passion is building and growing programs while ensuring the highest quality of care possible for all clients. When it comes to her work, Olivia is extremely invested and believes that every person should be given the opportunity to heal and grow in an environment that is safe and welcoming. The safety and satisfaction of clients and staff are at the forefront of her leadership style. Olivia is happily married to her husband Tyler and she is a proud dog mom to Dolly. In her free time, Olivia enjoys spending time on the lake with her family, traveling, and reading.

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She earned a bachelor of arts in psychology and a master’s of education in counseling psychology from the University of Louisville, followed by a master’s in healthcare management from the University of Southern Indiana. Since 2005, she has worked in behavioral health across Jeffersonville and surrounding communities.

In leadership since 2009, Sara has held key roles blending clinical and operational expertise. Her clinical interests include eating disorders, mood and anxiety disorders, trauma, and family systems. Passionate about helping others reach their full potential, she enjoys reading, family time, and the outdoors.

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She began her career treating eating disorders and specializes in trauma-based therapy, DBT, and experiential therapies. She became a certified equine-assisted therapist through EAGALA and a certified life coach through AACC to deepen her expertise. Melanie has worked in various mental health settings, including program development, nonprofits, podcasting, consulting, outreach, and education. She has held roles such as primary therapist, program director, clinical director, and executive director.

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Amber earned her bachelor’s in social work from Union University and her master’s from Columbia University in New York City. She has experience in outpatient and residential treatment settings, where she has held positions ranging from direct client care to program management and director roles focusing on staff development and organizational wellness. In addition to eating disorders, she has clinical experience in trauma and co-occurring disorders. She enjoys providing training within the community and has served as an adjunct professor in the department of social work for Belmont University in Nashville, Tennessee.

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Tammy co-authored the Academy of Nutrition and Dietetics’ Standards of Practice for eating disorder RDNs and has developed nutrition programs nationwide. She mentors clinicians, serves as a media resource, and runs a private practice supporting clients and organizations.

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As AVP of Clinical Operations for the Odyssey Behavioral Health Eating Disorder Network, Kate plays a key role in shaping Aster Springs’ exceptional clinical care across all levels.

With nearly two decades of experience in eating disorder treatment, Kate has provided direct client care at every level and is deeply committed to clinical supervision. Her passion lies in supporting and developing fellow treatment providers to enhance the quality of care in the field.

Kate earned a bachelor’s degree in psychology from Indiana University and a master’s in social work from Washington University in St. Louis, Missouri.

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Dr. Scales is the network medical director for Odyssey Behavioral Healthcare’s eating disorder network, including Aster Springs, where he provides psychiatric and medical care to clients.

He earned his undergraduate degree from Wheaton College, attended medical school at the University of Tennessee, Memphis, and completed his internal medicine and psychiatry residency at Rush Presbyterian St. Luke’s Medical Center in Chicago, Illinois. An advocate for eating disorder awareness, Dr. Scales has delivered community presentations, made media appearances, and hosted the web-based radio show Understanding Eating Disorders.

He is a diplomat on the American Board of Internal Medicine, the American Board of Psychiatry and Neurology, and addiction medicine through the American Board of Preventive Medicine. Most importantly, he is a husband and proud father of two children. 

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